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As the days grow shorter and the air turns crisp, Fall invites us to notice change-leaves loosening their grip, light softening, routines shifting.  For many, this season’s beauty can sit alongside a quiet ache.  Grief often feels sharper in transition; anniversaries surface, holidays approach, and the slowing pace leaves more room for memory.

If you’re navigating loss this Fall, you’re not alone.  Here are gentle, practical ways to care for yourself during this season of change.

• Honor your rhythms:  Energy can ebb and flow hour to hour.  Give yourself permission to move slowly, rest more, and say no when you need to.
• Create small rituals: light a candle at dusk, write a note to your loved one, take a weekly walk under the changing trees.  Rituals offer structure when emotions feel untethered.
• Make room for mixed feelings: it’s ok to laugh at a harvest fair and cry in the car on the way home.  Joy and sorrow can coexist: both are valid.
• Stay connected: share a meal with a friend, join a support group, or call someone who understands your story.  Connection doesn’t erase grief, but it can lighten the load.
• Nourish your body, Warm, simple meals, steady hydration and gentle movement can help your nervous system find steadier ground.
• Limit overwhelm:  Holidays and gatherings can be complicated.  Plan an exit strategy, choose traditions that feel supportive, and let go of what’s too heavy this year.
• Seek support:  if your grief feels unmanageable, reaching out to a counselor, faith leader, or grief specialist can provide steady, personalized care.

Fall teaches us that letting go is part of life’s cycle-and that what falls away makes space for what’s next.  Your grief is not something to “get over”, but something to carry with tenderness.  With time, support, and kindness toward yourself, it can become a quieter companion.

Remember Hayley’s Sunshine is here to help.  You don’t have to walk this path alone.

At Hayley’s Sunshine, we believe in the power of kindness, community, and compassion. Recently, we were honored to witness these values come to life through the incredible efforts of local Girl Scout troop 71140 that chose our nonprofit as the focus of their Take Action Project.

The troop poured their energy into making special items to include in our Sunshine Boxes. Over the course of their project, these inspiring young girls: hand-tied cozy fleece blankets and crafted beautiful bracelets and paper clip angels.

We were truly moved by the effort they put into every item. Their dedication is a reminder that age is no barrier when it comes to making a meaningful impact. Their contributions will bring comfort to many children and for that, we are endlessly grateful.

This is what kindness looks like. It looks like kids taking action, giving their time, and choosing to make a difference.

We also would like to bring attention to a very special couple, cousins of the family, Brian and Kyran, who recently celebrated their 50^th wedding anniversary.  In lieu of gifts they asked guests to donate to Hayley’s Sunshine.  They have been faithful supporters since our inception and we are so very grateful for their kindness, love & generosity.

Finally, we received a generous $1,000. donation from the Hatboro Rotary club.  A coworker on the board submitted our name and we were honored to receive this check on behalf of Hayley’s Sunshine.  We’re excited to share our mission further to this area of Montgomery County.  We are so very thankful for this kindness.

There are so many other ways Hayley’s Sunshine has been blessed, and we’re excited to share these few examples.  Kindness is contagious.   No kindness is too small.  May you be the recipient of a kind act today.

The Hayley’s Sunshine team

It’s an honor for me to be a part of Hayley’s Sunshine and to reach out to children in my sweet girl’s memory. Childhood grief is something I am unfortunately all too familiar with.  At the age of 9 I lost my dad unexpectedly.  When my siblings and I lost our father, grief was not something that was spoken about.  Counseling and the conversation of grief today is much more common and encouraged.

I grew up babysitting, mentoring, playing with and loving children.  Just being with kids brought me so much joy.  Becoming a mom to Hayley and Jimmy was a dream come true.  Experiencing life through their little eyes brought me so much happiness.  I can’t express the way my heart grew with these two human beings.

Hayley’s Sunshine is the best way I know how to honor my sweet Hayley, the smartest, happiest, funniest girl I have ever known.  She left us way too soon and is missed every second of every minute of every day.  It’s also a way to continue to love my son who suffered such a tremendous loss about the same age as I did so many years ago.  I am thankful to have the opportunity to do something meaningful for children and families in their time of need.  Surviving grief and loss is a hard and lonely road to travel.  Hayley’s Sunshine exists to remind families and children that they are deeply loved and never alone.  If we can bring a smile, a little bit of joy and sunshine into a child’s day, it’s a good day.

For the love of kids and unending love for my kids, Hayley & Jimmy….